In it Together | Jennifer’s Journey
Raising two children on your own isn’t easy. And it’s even harder to do while homeless. But Jennifer H. isn’t letting herself “get comfortable.” Every day, she’s “pushing” herself towards her ultimate goal.
Note: This interview was completed prior to the pandemic declaration.
Cars rush by above on the Van Wyck Expressway and Jackie Robinson Parkway. A few streets away, people move along at that famous New York City pace. Nestled on the edge of all this activity is the Briarwood Family Residence.
Briarwood
Briarwood is a temporary housing shelter for over 90 families experiencing homelessness. It is operated by The Salvation Army, a Care For the Homeless (CFH) non-profit partner.
Like most residences of its kind, Briarwoodโs number one goal is to help transition people from homelessness to permanent housing. To accomplish this goal, they employ a highly skilled social service team as well as host the health center operated by CFH.
Jennifer
One of the many mothers living with their children at Briarwood, is Jennifer H. She recently moved back to NYC after living in North Carolina for the past 11-years.
โI missed it here,โ said Jennifer. โThere was a falling out with my mom and my sister before I moved. I also feel like thereโs more opportunity up here than where I was.โ
Dreams and Aspirations
โI just want to come up in the city,โ explained Jennifer.
Specifically, she wants to make name for herself in the food services industry.
โI love food, and not just to eat,โ she said. โI worked in a chicken plant for a long time. So, Iโm interested in food safety and how it all comes together. Itโs my passion and I want to learn as much as I can.โ
Jennifer is working towards her goal by dedicating a lot of time to her Back to Work program. She recently completed a food handling class and is in route to receive a certificate in Food Protection. However, while these goals are important for her, she has two other reasons motivating her to succeed.
Sticking Together
โIโm not going to lie,โ said Jennifer. โMy first two weeks [at Briarwood], I cried. Sometimes I feel like Iโm alone, but I have my girls.โ
Elizabeth, 8, and Aliyah, 3, mean the world to Jennifer. And although the beginning of their new lives in NYC havenโt been the easiest, they all find ways to lift each otherโs spirits.
โElizabeth loves school all around, but loves reading the most. Sheโs reading something different all the time,โ explained Jennifer. โAliyah likes to be active and loves to talk. Sheโs 3, going on 30.โ
โWe have other family,โ Jennifer continued. โBut when it boils down to it, itโs just us three. We have to stick together.โ
And stick together they have. With the girls thriving in school and their mother on the path to employment, theyโre moving together towards their ultimate goal:
A Place of Their Own.
โIโve had Elizabeth ask, โWhen am I going to get my own room?โโ said Jennifer. โSo, I tell her, โIโm working on it. Youโre going to get it.โ I try to keep her hopes high as well as my own.โ
Because as well as the girls have been adapting to this new and unfamiliar life, there is a level of comfort that hasnโt set in. And, according to Jennifer, sheโs all the better for it.
โI canโt say itโs stopped being scary,โ she explained. โI canโt get comfortable. I tell myself Iโm here for a reason and that I have to get it together. Thatโs it.โ
The CFH Health Center
Jennifer knows that better things are waiting for her beyond Briarwood. However, that hasnโt stopped her from taking advantage of the many services offered there. And one in particular that has had an immeasurable benefit on her well-being.
HS or hidradenitis suppurativa, has affected Jennifer for most of her life. It is an inflammatory skin condition that causes small bumps to appear on the skin. These bumps are often painful and have the potential to rupture.
Prior to coming to Briarwood, Jennifer was not on Medicaid. As a result, she had to go to the ER every time she had to receive treatment for her HS.
That all changed when she came to the CFH health center.
โAt first, they told us everybody has to see the doctor at least one time,โ she explained. โBut once I met Vlad [Taub, Nurse Practitioner], he was cool. So, I just kept coming back. He always greets me with open arms.โ
So, despite the fact that HS is still an issue for Jennifer, she feels that she is finally in a position to take control of her health instead of having it control her.
Taking Control
โThe people here helped me get on Medicaid,โ she explained. โComing here and getting checked out, and then being able to go other places for help has been so much better than going to the ER every time I have a problem. Thereโs no cure, but now Iโm on antibiotics and itโs finally getting taken care of. Itโs a huge weight off my shoulders.โ
โMy chances to get out of this situation would be horrible if I didnโt have access to the health center here,โ Jennifer continued. โIโd have to have an awesome job just to keep up with the medical bills. So, everything that Iโve been given access to here has been a plus. Itโs been great for my girls too.โ
The Equalizer
Anybody can become homeless. Misinformed and harmful stigmas would have you believe that homelessness is a choice or the result of one bad decisions. This is simply not true.
The reasons for why a person becomes homeless are always varied and complex. They also donโt exclusively apply to one kind of person.
George Nashak, our President and CEO, put it best when he stated, โIf someone says, โThis is the one thing to do to end homelessness,โ stop listening. Homelessness is a multi-factorial problem and requires a sophisticated toolbox with multiple approaches. It also requires intelligent management that matches the solutions in the tool box to an individualโs or familyโs specific situation.
โCFH approaches our work in this fashion,โ he continued. โWe have expertise in both health care and homeless services. We take an approach that looks at the whole person. We also work from a team-based approach with primary physicians, psychiatrists, nurses and other team members that address all of a personโs issues in an integrated way.โ
That is why Care For the Homeless continues to deliver high quality health care to homeless New Yorkers. Because with proper, accessible services and better policies, we can end homelessness.